As Kinky As You Want
To Be
by Shanna
Germain
As Kinky as You Wanna Be is
not an instruction book. It won't teach you how to tie up your
squirming lover or choose the proper lube, check out Screw The Roses, SM 101
or How to be Kinky books for that!
Rather, it
teaches you how to
be a kinky person who has safe, sane, and smart experiences. Like a
tourist's guide to BDSM, As Kinky as You Wanna Be offers a road map to
your own kinky self. This book helps you discover which kinky countries
you want to visit, gives you tips and techniques on the language of
BDSM, and helps you navigate the customs and rituals of the kink
community.
With sections on discovering your pleasures; talking about kink with
your partner, your family, or your doctor; staying physically and
mentally safe; putting your kinky dreams into practice; and dealing
with difficult situations, As Kinky as You Wanna Be is your guide and
confidant.
The book features informative interviews with BDSM experts
such as Jay Wiseman (SM 101, author) and Lee
Harrington, and it is sprinkled with
stories from top erotica authors like Janine Ashbless and Rachel Kramer
Bussel.
Whether your first kinky experience or thousandth, As Kinky as
You Wanna Be guides you -- safely and smartly.
As Kinky As
You Want To Be Book
Item #660-1360
Price: $19.95
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SM 101 Book
by
Jay Wiseman
Originally
published in 1992, it is one of the most recommended guidebooks
on BDSM ever written.
The book begins with preliminary issues, including the
definition of SM, then covers the fundamentally important issues such
as consent safewords, negotiation (including both short-form and
long-form checklists), setting the scene, and aftercare.
Actual techniques described at some length include rope bondage
and
other forms of restraint, giving and receiving of erotic pain,
flagellation, clamps, spanking, lubricants, genital play,
anal play, erotic humiliation, knife play, dominant/submissive
interactions, slave training, collars, and much more. It includes
sections about general safety
considerations, doing SM during pregnancy, SM and safer sex, and
dealing with common SM-related emergencies. It also
offers information on how to set up SM organizations
and events, etc.
There is a
special "starter" chapter titled "A Novice Woman's Quick Reference
Guide to Erotically
Dominating a Submissive Man" that lays out a step-by-step blueprint for
a basic SM session and a chapter devoted to related practices
such as enema play, fetishism, fisting, polyamory, and tantra. It has a
substantial bibliography and reference section and glossary.
SM 101
Book
Item #660-7103
Price: $24.95
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Screw the Roses,
Send Me the Thorns:
The Romance
and Sexual Sorcery of
Sadomasochism
This
is the quintessential bible of
BDSM (originally published in 1995) by a couple who shared a
passionate sadomasochistic lifestyle. They developed the book to
clarify that BDSM
is not about violence, abuse or
misuse of power, but builds a relationship using trust and
communication. It is a very powerful and wonderful experience, full of
love and affection.
Half of the
book is devoted to teaching safe BDSM techniques. There are also
chapters on the psychological impacts, and others that cover ideas,
uses of toys, gear, floggers, electro, etc. and details of various
aspects of the broad array of options available to the beginner, as
well as the experienced.
This is truly a classic, collectible book for the bondage and BDSM
enthusiast... if you don't have a copy, shame on you! If you had one
and
"lost" it by loaning it to a friend, now you have an opportunity to
own it again... but we don't know for how long!
Screw
the Roses, Send Me the Thorns:
The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of
Sadomasochism
Item #660-7020
Price:
$29.95
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Bottoming
Book Topping Book
The
original Bottoming and Topping books, first published over 10 years
ago,
gave plenty of great information and advice for "bottoms" and
"Tops".
These newly updated editions contain much of the original content, such
as "how to negotiate", being safe, sane and consensual, etc. however,
now
they are updated with information and how-to's for the cyber world
players,
as well!
There are sections on meeting someone online via chat rooms,
mailing
lists and/or Internet newsgroups along with great ideas for ways to
convert
from "cyber" to "real-time," and dealing with the fact that their
"reality"
may not be your reality. They include chapters describing
different
"scenes" and tips on how to start and end a scene. There are
discussions
on role play, with short subsections about bondage and submission. Each
book is geared to help the Top or the bottom in their quest to "match
up"
with the other, as well as being perfect BDSM instruction guides for
both!
Bottoming Book
Item
#660-5394
Price: $18.95
Topping
Book
Item
#660-5396
Price: $18.95
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Anal Pleasure
& Health
A
Guide for Men and
Women
by
Jack Morin, PH.D.
The
most comprehensive anal play book of its time!
This is
the first and only
research-based guide for the millions of men and women, of all sexual
orientations,
who want to include the anal area in their erotic exploration. Updating
his findings for the 21st century, author Jack Morin, Ph.D., explains
how
to replace negative emotions and beliefs about the anus with positive
attitudes;
how to simultaneously enjoy anal stimulation and promote anal wellness;
how to know and communicate your requirements for satisfying anal
experiences;
and how to contribute to your own healing when you have medical
problems.
Check out the Guide to
Anal Pleasure DVD, as well...
Anal Pleasure and Health Book
Item #660-1170
SOLD OUT - out of print!
P.S.
don't miss the electro
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Intimate
Invasions
The
erotic ins & outs of enema play book
by M.R.
Strict
The
title says it all! Klismaphilia - enema play - is one of the last
taboos
of kinky sex, yet this style of play can be erotic, intense and safe. Between
the anecdotes, M.R. Strict explains
the
psychology, physiology and safety issues of using enemas as a
disciplinary
scenario, part of a medical role-play, preparation for other forms of
play
or simply as exciting foreplay.
Intimate
Invasions
Item #
660-3840
Price: $15.95
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Ultimate Guide
to Solo Sex
By Jenny Block
Masturbation is a many-splendored thing, however, we can get into a
comfortable rut! Take what can be really good to really great with Jenny Block's
guide to getting in on with yourself. Whether you are happily coupled,
on your own, poly, or demonstrating your solo skills for your lover(s),
Block has the very best advice on how to pleasure yourself masterfully
and share the love.
Replete with thorough research, Block's book covers
the science of sex, wild and wonderful ideas for upping the
masturbation ante, and lots of suggestions for how to incorporate toys.
Due to its subject matter, there are only one or two truly good books
on the market about "sex for one," which are years ...even decades...
old! The Ultimate Guide to Solo Sex makes
its entry as an instant classic that shows readers how to go from
mundane to mind-blowing!
Paperback, 192 pages.
Ultimate
Guide to Solo Sex
Item #660-7825
Price: $18.95
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The
Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex
by Violet Blue
The Adventurous Couple's
Guide
to Strap-On Sex gives scenarios and ideas for the Bend Over Boyfriend "pegging"
novice, but also very informative details of the basic questions asked
about strap-on sex for couples (female-male) with chapters covering the
interactivity of the male anatomy of penis and testicles as well as the
anus and prostate.
There's even a chapter devoted to the universal
question: what's going on with my
partner's sexuality and
orientation? [spoiler answer: Nothing! He's just sensual!!]
Along with new designs in strap-on-less
dildos and comfortable harnesses, strap-on sex is rapidly becoming
a popular heterosexual couple's way (also known as Pegging) to enjoy each other and this
book
offers
some great tips on how to take intimacy to a whole new level!
Adventurous Couple's
Guide to Strap-on Sex Book
Item #660-1053
Price: $17.95
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Long term couples get into their sexual
"routine" but eventually tire from "doing the same old thing"... yet
trying to come up with some new, inspiring ideas seems like a task,
instead of a fun... well here's a great book to get you "kick-started"
to new sex-ventures! In this expertly crafted book, read the explicit
stories of couples who try out
their favorite sexual fantasies — with explosive results. Written by
sex
educator Violet Blue, this collection of erotic fantasies is bound to keep you up way past bedtime. Sweet Life is your ticket to a
front
row seat to first-time spankings, breathtaking role-playing scenes,
sex parties, women who strap it on (and men who love to take it), not
to
mention threesomes of every combination…
Sweet
Life: Erotic Fantasies for Couples
Item #660-7210
Price:
$15.95
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How to Be
Kinky: A
Beginner's Guide to BDSM
Newer! Updated Version
-more pictorials!!
by Morpheus
This new version of How to be Kinky is chock full of pictorials
demonstrating many aspects of BDSM and role play for the curious, the
newbie and even some great tips for the "I've been playing for a while,
but need some new ideas!" folks. It's the perfect starting place
for anyone (couples or singles alike!) who want to take a look at
walking on the wild side of role play and BDSM, but have questions...
lots of questions! This book is filled with answers!
The common sense, practical approach to engaging an S&M
scene,
negotiating kinky play with a partner, while maintaining boundaries are
addressed, including using the proper protocol expected at fetish
events, as well as the
basics of BDSM play and role-playing with explicit photos guiding you
all along the way!
Geared towards both dominants and
submissives, it's packed with tips and anecdotes from dozens of fetish
world aficionados. Illustrated and in a user- friendly format, this
book
will take the fear out of your exploration and Morpheous
shows you how to begin (with a bit of tongue-in-cheek
humor) the journey to kink-dom fun and exciting, always focused on
communication, fun, and safety.
It's a walloping 256 pages of kink!
Already have this book, but are looking for more advanced stuff?
Here
you go... How
to Be Kinkier...
How To
Be
Kinky Book - Updated!
Item #660-3412
Price: $23.95
How
to Be
Kinkier:
More Adventures in Adult Playtime
by
Morpheus
Move up to the next level of edgy sexual adventures in BDSM and role
play in this follow up book to author, Morpheous, How
to Be
Kinky. It's the instructional and pictorial guide to in
depth topics from proper usage of the many of the toys we offer and
others that are available for kinksters to dealing with inter-personal
relationships within the kink community to safety tip for play piercing.
With over 200 gorgeous full-color photos and 20 sexy step-by-step photo
essays, this book educates and excites at the same time. Having
introduced readers to the fun and fabulous basics of adult play with
his first book, Morpheous now takes his audience on a trip into the
naughtier side of their personalities. With an introduction by porn
star, feminist and sex educator Nina Hartley, a huge fan of the first
book, How to Be Kinkier gives
instruction and inspiration on how to discover your favorite fetish and
find out just how kinky you really are.
How To
Be
Kinkier Book
Item #660-3413
Price: $23.95
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Sexually
Dominant Woman
by Lady
Green
Lady Green has taught tens of thousands of women, men and couples the
fundamentals of safe, fun, erotic female-dominant play,
since her initial publication many years ago (originally a
Xerox-copied pamphlet!) called "The Sexually Dominant Woman"..
Now the publication has been revised and updated. It is still a very
user-friendly, non-threatening book, which is why it works so well as
the perfect starting point for the woman who has fantasized about
erotic power play, explaining the fundamentals of bondage, sensation
and control games. It includes a script to inspire and support the
novice through her first scene, a new section on partner-finding skills
and updated information on the possible emotional effects of
female-dominant play. Submissives will enjoy it, as well, as long as
their Domme allows it! <evil grin>
Sexually
Dominant Woman
Item #660-7086
Price:
$16.95
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The
Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
by Charlie
Glickman
We've
helped so many over the years with our Prostate Stimulation Page, as
well as with our Prostate
Stimulation
section of our Medical
Fetish Library. But up until now, there hasn't been a book on the
subject that covers not only prostate health, but also prostate
pleasures! So here it is, "The Ultimate Guide to Prostate
Pleasure" written by sex educators Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn
Emirzian.
This indispensable manual covers both solo and partnered P-spot
pleasure
play. Regardless if you are a first-time adventurer
or a seasoned practitioner, this book will be a portable support and
guide for beginning, cultivating and/or improving your exploration and
techniques far beyond what you once felt comfortable or capable of when
it comes to prostate play! So, what are you waiting for? Grab the book,
a new prostate stim toy and
get ready for new levels of sexual
excitement!
Paperback, 368 pages
The
Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
Item
#660-7840
Price: $19.95
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Ultimate
Guide to Kink
by Tristan
Taormino
Tristan Taormino, the award winning sex
educator, filmmaker and author presents this first major guide to BDSM
and kink in almost twenty years! It delves into complex questions
about desire, power, and pleasure, covering the multi-faceted levels
and types of role play games, that kinksters, newbies and the curious
seek out. The book brings together a collective of today's top sexuality/BDSM
educators to cover each chapter with their own
expertise, such as Patrick Calafia, Midori, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young,
Laura Antoniou, Jack Rinella, just to name a few! You will want this in
your library as not only a great reference guide, but a great read!
Here, read this review
by a self-described "vanilla librarian"!
Ultimate
Guide to Kink
Item #660-7805
Price:
$24.95
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Fantasy Made
Flesh
The
Essential Guide to
Erotic Roleplay
by
Deborah Addington
Slave,
princess, barbarian,
hoodlum, nasty nurse, devious doctor, hooker: roles like these drive
our
fantasies, but often resist being brought into reality. Here you'll
learn
to become the creature of your dreams, letting go of bashfulness and
self-criticism,
setting the stage with props, environment and costumes to bring your
most
outrageous fantasies into living, breathing, incredibly-turned-on
reality!
Fantasy Made Flesh
Book
Item #660-2670
Price: $24.95
P.S.
Need some outfits
for that role play?
A
Hand
in the Bush
The Fine
Art of Vaginal
Fisting
by Deborah
Addington
Vaginal
fisting - the intimate,
potent sexual act of gradually inserting the entire hand into the
vagina
- is an increasingly popular form of sex play among lesbians, bisexuals
and heterosexuals alike. Now, for the first time, an experienced fister
and fistee explains in detail how to fist with the greatest possible
safety
and pleasure.
Extensively illustrated, this long-awaited guide by
Deborah
Addington has been approved by three fisting-positive physicians and by
many experienced practitioners. Also includes an eye-opening section of
anecdotes and poetry by fisting-lovers, plus an extensive resource
guide.
A must-have "handbook" for the sexually explorative!
Hand
in the Bush Book
Item
#660-3340
Price:
$24.95
The G-Spot Book
The G-spot has long been regarded as one of a woman's most
mysterious, elusive and sought-after pleasure zones—but now, expertise
is within your reach. The Good Vibrations Guide: The G-Spot explains:
how to find the spot; how to enhance your G-spot pleasure; how to let
your partner in on the secret; how the G-spot has fared through medical
and literary history.
You'll also find an eye-opening anatomy lesson and
no-nonsense debunking of the myths surrounding female ejaculation, with
references and a bibliography. Whether you're just starting out or a
practiced G-spot explorer, the tips and techniques in these pages are
sure to hit the spot!
The G-Spot Book
Item # 660-3184
Price: $18.95
P.S.
G-Spot Vibrator
Hitachi Attachments & Kits , Glass
G-Spot Toys or other G-Spot
Toys...
The Mistress Manual
by Lorelei
Female dominance acts out
in a myriad of ways, techniques and styles, which usually depends on
the roles or needs of the submissive. This timeless classic "how-to"
for "the good girl" who wants to know everything about being dominant,
will give the
details... from what to wear to what to say, tasks and trials
to put your submissive (or sissy) through and
much more. It even has some sample slave contracts!
It's full of useful tips and advice
along with some of the technical aspects of BDSM.
The
Mistress Manual
Item #
660-5112
Price: $18.95
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Master of O
By Ernest Greene
Enter the decadent dungeons frequented by the powerful players of Los
Angeles in this sexy virtual page turner! Steven Diamond is a
high-powered LA attorney by day, but by night he uses his wealth and
influence to indulge his most intimate desires - including the
domination and ownership of his choice of beautiful and willing female
slaves. His life is a waking dream until his younger half-brother, Ray,
presents him with a unique gift: The eponymous O, a mysterious and
seductive submissive hedonist in search of a master deserving of her
complete devotion.
Master of O takes you inside the hidden world of the most privileged
and indulgent elite pleasure seekers, a world at once enticingly exotic
and recognizable as Steven and O navigate the dangerous territories of
desire, power, and gratification in this modern classic of erotic
obsession, a new addition to The Story of O saga, told for the first
time from the point of view of the dominant man. Paperback, 763 pages.
About the author: Ernest Greene has been the
Executive Editor of Hustler's flagship BDSM magazine Taboo since 1999,
and recently became Chief Associate Editor for Hustler's All-Sex
issues. He has performed in, written, produced, or directed over 500
adult titles, including the Nina Hartley's Guide series, starring his
wife and producing partner, noted porn star and sex educator Nina
Hartley.
Master
of O
Item #660-5090
Price: $16.95
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